The Decision to Send Our Daughter to a Muslim School
Shortly after our daughter was born my husband and I decided that I would homeschool her. We did not have any conviction that this was the only way to educate a child, or even that it was the best way to educate a child, but our decision was made mostly out of economic necessity. Although we are fortunate enough to live in an excellent Muslim community that has a good Muslim school for ages Pre-K through high school, mashaAllah, the tuition was so high as to make it prohibitive.
Nonetheless, as our daughter approached Kindergarten age my husband had a change of heart. He was concerned that she would not learn enough Arabic or Qur’an if she stayed at home, so a flurry of preparations to send her off on her big day ensued. Uniforms were sewn, fees were paid and a deal of money was spent on school supplies. It was a struggle to come up with the monthly payments, but we wanted to do the right thing and give our child the education we felt she needed as a Muslim.
Our daughter loved Kindergarten for the first few weeks, mashaAllah. I would wake her up early and she would happily jump out of bed, ready to start her day. She seemed to be learning at least some, and most importantly, she was happy. I felt relieved. I was never one of those mothers who wept at the Kindergarten door after dropping her off at school. I figured; if she’s happy, I’m happy, and left it at that.